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Mind the gap

Mind the gap – because the prayer is in the gap!

I’m talking about the Bidding Prayer / Intercessions / Prayer of the Faithful in Mass. And by the way, those are three names for the same thing. After hearing the World of God and responding with the Psalm and Alleluia, we confirm in the Creed that we believe in the God who has just spoken to us. Then, having sealed our relationship with the Father, we use that faith by bringing to God our prayers, for the Church, the world and the community. To pray for the world and God’s people is one of the duties flowing from our Baptism. This is the part of the Mass set aside for that specific purpose.
After an introduction by the priest, each prayer usually has two parts doesn’t it – the intention and then the invitation and response, such as “Lord, hear us – Lord, graciously hear us”. Wrong! Each prayer has three parts not two, because between the intention and the invitation is a pause, and what is that pause for? It is, in fact the most important part of the Prayers, because it is the prayer. The intention tells us what we are praying for, then we actually do the praying in that pause, so that the “Lord hear us” is asking God to hear the very prayers we have just offered. How can you have time to say something to God in half a second?
Readers – When it says “Pause” in the reader’s copy at the lectern, it means Pause – not half a second, or one or two seconds. Often the writer will have put “Five seconds” and that is about right. Do not be afraid of silence. I know it might feel awkward at first, but I do ask you to leave a genuine pause – count to five if you wish – to allow us all to really pray.
Writers – Please make sure that the first part, the invitation, is exactly that. It should not be a prayer itself, addressed to God, but an invitation to us to address ourselves to God. A good format is “Let us pray for x that y may happen”. We are invited to pray for needs and situation, then let us really do that, before bringing it together with “Lord in your mercy” or similar.

The prayer is in the gap – so mind the gap!

Praying and growing

Have you had your usual meals during the last 24 hours? I bet you have… but have you had nourishment for your spirit and your mind too? Most of us would not think about missing our meals – or perhaps our favourite TV programme. If it’s important we make sure we do it, don’t we?. So how important is it to grow in spirit too?

Looking beyond our own personal prayer life, there are in fact a lot of opportunities to grow in faith through discussion and/or prayer or sharing in our 3 Churches. But not everyone is aware of them, and so it was thought a good idea to bring together info on them into one place.

This week then, as a follow-up to last week’s 3 Churches Information folder, you will be given another sheet listing most of those opportunities. It’s not exhaustive, not mentioning, for example seasonal things like Stations or the Lenten Discussion Groups. But it does give a good overall picture of what is available, and perhaps you have ideas for new initiatives? Let us know!

Fr Matthew

REFLECTION after Communion this weekend. Use it at home too…

God our loving Father,
rich in mercy, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love,
speak deeply to me today of your unconditional love and forgiveness. Help me to come to my senses;
repent of my wrongdoings;
turn back to you
and accept your complete forgiveness.
Give me a readiness to reflect your love and compassion in my everyday life; to be prepared to show mercy and forgiveness to others
and so become more like you.
Amen

The Refugee Crisis: Prayers and readings

Introduction

Our awareness of the plight of refugees has grown in recent weeks with the influx of people trying to reach Europe from the Middle East, parts of Africa and places such as Afghanistan.  A third of the these refugees have fled Syria where 12.2 million people have been forced from their homes,  4 million of them fleeing to other countries. 

A  refugee is recognised in international law as someone forced out of their home country against their will.  Around the world there are some 19 million refugees fleeing from many conflicts –  from Honduras to Nigeria to Myanmar – overall the largest movement of refugees since the end of World War 2.

Refugees suffer in multiple ways:

  • from the persecution which forces them to flee
  • living in camps which are  cramped and unsafe with few prospects for work or education – with families often stuck in limbo for generations
  • when they decide to move on, from dangerous journeys, often in the hands of people traffickers,
  • once they reach their chosen destination from the experience of living in camps or sleeping rough, of living in fear of deportation and of facing a hostile reception in the host country.

Many poorer countries on the borders of conflict areas themselves face great difficulty in coping with large number of refugees.  In the current crisis Turkey and Lebanon are examples. 

The international community as a whole lacks adequate and effective  arrangements for helping refugees and many wealthier countries are unwilling to open their borders and receive refugees because of concerns that this will adversely affect their economic position and change their culture.

In prayer and reflection we bring this difficult and tangled crisis and all those caught up in it, into the presence of the Lord.

Opening Prayer

Heavenly Father hear the cries of the refugees; grant generosity of spirit to communities faced with an influx of refugees; and guide political leaders to find just and effective ways of dealing with the crisis. 

A Reading from the book of Exodus

When Pharaoh had let the people go ……. God led the people by the roundabout way of the wilderness to the Sea of Reeds……. The Lord went before them, by day in the form of a pillar of cloud to show them the way, and by night in the form of a pillar of fire to light them : thus they could continue their march by day and by night.  The pillar of cloud never failed to go before the people during the day, nor the pillar of fire during the night.

The word of the Lord

Prayer

God of all humanity

When your people were enslaved and displaced, you led them to a land that they could call home;

When your people were in exile, you promised that one day, they would live in a land of plenty.

When your disciples were afraid and uncertain, you spoke of your Father’s house

with places prepared for them.

(All  respond)

We pray for all those who have no place to call home

for those who are without refuge.

Where shelter is ours to offer

grant us the will and resolve to show forth your generosity.

May our cry for justice never falter.

May self-interest and economic gain never deflect us from the ways of your Kingdom.

We make our prayer through Christ our Lord. Amen

A Reading from the  Gospel of St Matthew

The angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, “Rise, take the child and his mother, flee to Egypt, and stay there until I tell you. Herod is going to search for the child to destroy him.” Joseph rose and took the child and his mother by night and departed for Egypt.

The Gospel of the Lord.

Prayer

Lord Jesus, you fled the wrath of Herod.

Be with those who have to flee the injustice of others.

Lord Jesus, you had nowhere to lay your head.

Be with those who have no land to call their own.     

(All respond)

Almighty and merciful God, whose Son became a refugee, look with mercy on those who are fleeing from danger.. Bless those who work to bring them relief; inspire generosity and compassion in all our hearts; and guide the nations of the world towards that day when we will all rejoice in your Kingdom of justice and peace.  We make our prayer through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Readings from the book of Deuteronomy and Paul’s letter to the Hebrews

God it is who sees justice done for the orphan and the widow, who loves the

stranger and gives him food and clothing. Love the stranger then, for you

were once strangers in Egypt.

Continue to love each other like brothers, and remember always to welcome

strangers, for by doing this, some people have entertained angels without

knowing it.

The Word of the Lord

Prayer

Jesus, friend and brother, you know what it is to be hungry and thirsty.

You know the plight of the stranger who faces hostility.

You know the suffering of those who have lost everything.

Help us, who are the privileged inn-keepers of our day, to find room for those driven from their homelands; and in our actions help us to draw closer to you.   Amen.

(Pause for reflection)

We draw all our concerns together in prayers of intercession knowing that Our Heavenly Father hears our cries and our longing for peace and justice for all people.

We pray for refugees and other displaced people who have been forced from their homes by conflict.  May they find places of welcome and safety.  Lord in your mercy .

Hear our prayer.

We pray for the people and the lands from which the  refugees have fled that justice and lasting peace may return. Lord in your mercy.   Hear our prayer.

We pray for refugees living in overcrowded camps or living rough  – especially children, the sick and the old.  Many they find sanctuary.  Lord in your mercy.  Hear our prayer

We pray for relief workers, aid agencies and ordinary citizens trying to alleviate the great suffering evident in the crisis.  Grant them the strength and generosity to continue their work.

Lord in your mercy.  Hear our prayer.

We pray for the United Nations and political leaders.  Grant them the wisdom and the vision to find solutions to the crisis, solutions which meet both the immediate and the long-term needs of the refugees.  Lord in your mercy.  Hear our prayer.

We pray that as a nation we may be generous in the welcome and support we give to refugees who reach our shores. May we see in them your suffering face. Lord in your mercy.

Hear our prayer.

We pause for a few moments to bring our individual prayers to the Lord – sharing them out loud if you wish to do so. 

We ask Mary Our Mother to join her prayers to ours as we say …….. Hail Mary

We say together words of blessing

May the Grace of Our Lord, Jesus Christ, the love of God and the Fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with us all and with those we have prayed for, now and for evermore.

Amen